How We Work
A complete walkthrough of our end-to-end process — from free registration through to a successful introduction and, ultimately, marriage.
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"Personalised matches, absolutely free!" refers to the matching and profile step. Meeting fees of £150 per person, per meeting apply from the arranged meeting stage onward.
Step 1
Free Registration & Personal Profile Matching
- ♥ Upon becoming a member, a personal profile is created for you.
- ♥ The matching is done personally by our team — not by an algorithm.
- ♥ You are sent three free profiles of people personally selected for you.
- ♥ You indicate which match you would like to meet.
Step 2
Notification & Meeting Arrangement
- ♥ The selected match is sent a notification of your interest.
- ♥ If the match agrees, a meeting is arranged by Your Perfect Mate staff.
- ♥ The venue is chosen to be suitable for both parties — ideally at a geographic midpoint.
- ♥ The meeting fee must be paid before venue and timing details are confirmed.
- ♥ Meeting venue and refreshments are included in the fee.
- ♥ If none of the three matches agree to meet, further free matches can be requested (subject to terms).
Step 3
The First Meeting
All-inclusive fee: £150 per member (special offer price)
- ♥ Meetings are held at a comfortable and private venue.
- ♥ Your Perfect Mate administrative staff are present to introduce both parties and answer any questions.
- ♥ At the end of the meeting, each member discreetly fills in a feedback form.
- ♥ Each member indicates whether they would like a further meeting with the same person.
- ♥ Both members are told privately what the other person feels at the close of the meeting.
- ♥ Each party is asked to give general feedback to help improve the service.
Step 4
Second Meeting (If Both Parties Are Interested)
- ♥ A second meeting is arranged at a safe venue directed by Your Perfect Mate staff.
- ♥ Feedback is collected discreetly again at the close of the meeting.
- ♥ Each party is told whether the other feels this could lead to a serious relationship.
Step 5
After Mutual Interest Is Confirmed
- ♥ If both parties wish to proceed, they are given each other's contact details.
- ♥ They are encouraged to continue independently from that point.
- ♥ Both parties are asked to inform Your Perfect Mate if they are successful and agree to marry.
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Step 6
Successful Marriage 💍
- ♥ Members who marry through Your Perfect Mate are requested to make a goodwill payment of a minimum of £250 each to support the continued running of the service.
- 🎁 Wedding Gift: Your Perfect Mate will print the wedding invitations for the successful couple — our way of celebrating your journey together.
🔄 If a Meeting Is Unsuccessful
- → If the first or second meeting is not positive, you choose to meet one of the other two pre-selected matches.
- → If all three meetings are not positive, you may request further personalised matches.
- → Given the careful personal selection process, it is considered unlikely that anyone would need to go beyond their first match.
Our Core Principles
Confidential
Your data and identity are protected throughout every step of the process.
Compliance
The service operates within legal and ethical standards. Members are subject to clear terms.
Database
A growing, well-managed database of verified members underpins the quality of every match.
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Ready to Begin Your Journey?
Join for free. Your first three personalised matches are on us.